There are certain traits of a quality man that women should look for. I know the dating pool seems to have pee in it these days but there are still quality men out there. You are the prize and don’t have to settle for less.
We all have made that mistake of accepting less than what we deserve. Staying longer than you should and trying to make it work brings misery. As the saying goes: People are in your life for a reason or a season.
How to Date Multiple People
You can date multiple people; actually, it’s better if you do. In this day and age, it is ill advised to put all your eggs in one basket. That is a mistake many of us women make.
You should level up the competition. Make these men feel like you are the prize they must win because what they won’t do another man will.
You do not have to sleep with each man or even kiss them. You are not obligated to do anything with your body.
Just get to know them, talk to them, and enjoy their company. See how they handle certain situations and if they check off your non-negotiables.
Look for Quality Not Quantity
It doesn’t matter how many men you have in rotation if none of them have quality traits. Dating should be about quality not quantity.
Get clear on your intentions. Are you dating just to have fun and meet new people? Or are you dating to find a husband? If it is the latter, make sure the one you choose has qualities of a good husband.
Attractive Personality Traits of a Quality Man
- Has a Caring Heart
A man should have a loving and caring heart. He should also know to handle your heart with care.
- Emotional Intelligence
A quality man knows the importance of being present. He should be in touch with his emotions and get to know yours. If he cannot open up to you, is immature with his feelings, or playing games he is not a quality man who is emotionally available.
- Faithful
A quality man knows when he meets a quality woman. And he will not sabotage his relationship and risk losing her over foolishness. A quality man will not cheat on you.
- Honest and Trustworthy
He must be honest and trustworthy. Can you count on him to keep it real? Can you trust him with important tasks? Is he able to protect the family?
- Have Integrity and Morals
A quality man has high standards for himself and those around him. He has high self-esteem and self-love. Just as we women promote self-improvement so should a man.
He must know what he stands for and have boundaries in place to protect his morals and values.
- Enjoys Life
A quality man understands the time for work and the time for play. He isn’t too serious or stuck up. He will make you laugh and knows how to have a good time.
He should also be adventurous and spontaneous, always full of surprises that he knows you would like.
- Ambitious and Goal-Driven
Quality men have goals and a purpose. They know how to get out here and get it by any means necessary. He has things to do and people to take care of.
So, if you are looking for a quality man, make sure he has goals and a plan to accomplish those goals.
Not everybody’s path is the same, and it doesn’t matter if he’s a business owner or work a 9-5. As long as he has a plan on how to make living comfortable and pass generational wealth to the children.
- He Knows How to Make Money
You better get you a man that knows how to make money shake when things get hard. Love don’t pay the rent.
- He is Healing
A quality man has understood the importance of being healed especially when you decide to join with another person. Stop the passing of generational curses. No more toxic relationships.
No one is perfect but he should be working on his spiritual and mental health constantly. Either through therapy or holistic practices.
His focus should be on being a well-rounded man who is emotionally balanced.
- Great Communication Skills
The last traits of a quality man is communication skills. A quality man knows how to speak his mind, articulate his thought, and speak with passion.
But great communication skills are not just talking, it is also listening. He should be an active listener who is able to acknowledge what you said and how you feel. He doesn’t have to tip toe around you, but he shouldn’t be an asshole either while “keeping it real”. There should be balance.
It’s not always what you say, but how you say it.
Top Qualities of a Good Husband - Love Tarot Reading
The Page of Wands represents someone who is full of energy, innovation, creativity, and magic. This person has a zest for life and the ability to live it. He is adventurous and spontaneous, coming up with new and creative ways for you two to enjoy time together.
He thinks big! He is inspired by many things and passionate about what he does. It can also indicate a tendency to rush into things as a page signifies the beginning of a journey. At this stage he will be full of ideas and passion but lack proper experience.
The Emperor is someone who is strategic, organized, and disciplined. He is a great leader who rules firm. But there is another side to the Emperor which is fairness. Although he needs to be in control, he has everyone’s best interest at heart.
He can seem more traditional than romantic but his ability to plan a lavish life or event/vacation more than makes up for it. He is a man of high status and value who others look up to.
When these two cards pop up together what you should be looking for is a man who is romantic and creative but also focused and able to take action. It is great to have passion but without proper plans in place to bring the vision to life that passion can stay a dream.
You are needing a balanced man who you can have fun with and enjoy life with but also plan with and make strategic investments. Make sure he has values and beliefs that align with yours. You are needing a strong man who is also charismatic and open-minded.
These are the traits of a quality man plus a love tarot reading. We can go on and on, but I feel these are basic traits to look for in a partner. Key word partner because the Emperor can be domineering at times but should also be fair and take your feelings or point of view into consideration. Dating as a mom can be difficult as you have responsibilities and children to consider. But if you know what to look for as far as good qualities you will avoid wasting time.
Comment below what other qualities are you looking for in a man?
As always,
Be You Confidently
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